Update Cxn in all tools and set parent accordingly.

bin/pt-fk-error-logger

@@ -1639,23 +1639,24 @@ sub new {
    }
 
    my $self = {
-      dsn          => $dsn,
-      dbh          => $args{dbh},
-      dsn_name     => $dp->as_string($dsn, [qw(h P S)]),
-      hostname     => '',
-      set          => $args{set},
-      NAME_lc      => defined($args{NAME_lc}) ? $args{NAME_lc} : 1,
-      dbh_set      => 0,
-      OptionParser => $o,
-      DSNParser    => $dp,
+      dsn             => $dsn,
+      dbh             => $args{dbh},
+      dsn_name        => $dp->as_string($dsn, [qw(h P S)]),
+      hostname        => '',
+      set             => $args{set},
+      NAME_lc         => defined($args{NAME_lc}) ? $args{NAME_lc} : 1,
+      dbh_set         => 0,
+      OptionParser    => $o,
+      DSNParser       => $dp,
       is_cluster_node => undef,
+      parent          => $args{parent},
    };
 
    return bless $self, $class;
 }
 
 sub connect {
-   my ( $self ) = @_;
+   my ( $self, %opts ) = @_;
    my $dsn = $self->{dsn};
    my $dp  = $self->{DSNParser};
    my $o   = $self->{OptionParser};
@@ -1666,11 +1667,18 @@ sub connect {
          $dsn->{p} = OptionParser::prompt_noecho("Enter MySQL password: ");
          $self->{asked_for_pass} = 1;
       }
-      $dbh = $dp->get_dbh($dp->get_cxn_params($dsn),  { AutoCommit => 1 });
+      $dbh = $dp->get_dbh(
+         $dp->get_cxn_params($dsn),
+         {
+            AutoCommit => 1,
+            %opts,
+         },
+      );
    }
-   PTDEBUG && _d($dbh, 'Connected dbh to', $self->{name});
 
-   return $self->set_dbh($dbh);
+   $dbh = $self->set_dbh($dbh);
+   PTDEBUG && _d($dbh, 'Connected dbh to', $self->{hostname},$self->{dsn_name});
+   return $dbh;
 }
 
 sub set_dbh {
@@ -1693,6 +1701,11 @@ sub set_dbh {
       $self->{hostname} = $hostname;
    }
 
+   if ( $self->{parent} ) {
+      PTDEBUG && _d($dbh, 'Setting InactiveDestroy=1 in parent');
+      $dbh->{InactiveDestroy} = 1;
+   }
+
    if ( my $set = $self->{set}) {
       $set->($dbh);
    }
@@ -1727,12 +1740,21 @@ sub name {
 
 sub DESTROY {
    my ($self) = @_;
-   if ( $self->{dbh}
-         && blessed($self->{dbh})
-         && $self->{dbh}->can("disconnect") ) {
-      PTDEBUG && _d('Disconnecting dbh', $self->{dbh}, $self->{name});
+
+   PTDEBUG && _d('Destroying cxn');
+
+   if ( $self->{parent} ) {
+      PTDEBUG && _d($self->{dbh}, 'Not disconnecting dbh in parent');
+   }
+   elsif ( $self->{dbh}
+           && blessed($self->{dbh})
+           && $self->{dbh}->can("disconnect") )
+   {
+      PTDEBUG && _d($self->{dbh}, 'Disconnecting dbh on', $self->{hostname},
+         $self->{dsn_name});
       $self->{dbh}->disconnect();
    }
+
    return;
 }
 
@@ -3705,6 +3727,7 @@ sub main {
    if ( my $src_dsn_string = shift @ARGV ) {
       $src = Cxn->new(
          dsn_string   => $src_dsn_string,
+         parent       => $o->get('daemonize'),
          DSNParser    => $dp,
          OptionParser => $o,
       );
@@ -3714,7 +3737,8 @@ sub main {
    if ( my $dst_dsn = $o->get('dest') ) {
       $dst = Cxn->new(
          dsn          => $dst_dsn,
-         prev_dsn     => $src ? $src->dsn : undef,
+         prev_dsn     => ($src ? $src->dsn : undef),
+         parent       => $o->get('daemonize'),
          DSNParser    => $dp,
          OptionParser => $o,
       );
@@ -3765,6 +3789,16 @@ sub main {
       $daemon->make_PID_file();
    }
 
+   # If we daemonized, the parent has already exited and we're the child.
+   # We shared a copy of every Cxn with the parent, and the parent's copies
+   # were destroyed but the dbhs were not disconnected because the parent
+   # attrib was true.  Now, as the child, set it false so the dbhs will be
+   # disconnected when our Cxn copies are destroyed.  If we didn't daemonize,
+   # then we're not really a parent (since we have no children), so set it
+   # false to auto-disconnect the dbhs when our Cxns are destroyed.
+   $src->{parent} = 0;
+   $dst->{parent} = 0 if $dst;
+
    # ########################################################################
    # Do the version-check
    # ########################################################################